By: Miss B. Haven

This is the first installment in a weekly sex column delivered by the FREEP. Our writer Miss B. Haven will answer Babson student’s questions about sex and relationship topics. This is an entirely student run initiative that we feel is important for students. Providing an outlet to ask sexual questions is just one of the many social changes the FREEP will be making this year.

  Editor’s note: This is a peer to peer advice column for the Babson Community to enjoy. All questions are submitted by members of our community.
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Dear Ms. B,
There is a guy I really like. We have hung out and have a lot of fun. The other night we finally did the deed… however he didn’t last long enough for me to know if it was even good! I can’t have a relationship without good sex, should I give him another chance or ditch my efforts?
-Dig or ditch

 
Dear Dig or Ditch,
When companies take a survey and don’t get enough responses they throw out the data and start over! This guy could just have been under a lot of pressure, had a rough day, or just plain can’t cut it in the sack. The point is, YOU DON’T KNOW! My advice: give him another chance, try getting busy when both of you are relaxed and not under the influence. In business terms, get a nice clean unbiased survey so you can make an informed decision. Trust the Data!

- Miss B

Dear Ms. B,
The swine flu has us all on our guard! Cosmo Magazine recently published an article saying reverse cowgirl is the best position to avoid the spread of the flu. This is a tough position…how do I do it while looking like a natural? Are there any other easier positions that work just as well?
-Naughty but Nervous

Dear Naughty but Nervous,
You are right, reverse cowgirl can be tough. Only a real graceful sex diva can master it while their partner is lying down on the bed, but even the clumsiest sex kitten can master the reverse cowgirl with these easy steps. Have your partner sit on the edge of a couch or bed and grasp you around the waist; place your hands on either side of them and lower yourself onto your partner. This way you can use your legs and arms to support yourself and jettison up and down. GG Albright, our resident sexologist, gives guys this advice; to make this move more intimate and exciting for you and your partner be sure to give her body lots of attention using your mouth and hands. However if you have do have a virus I suggest taking a break from intimacy to recuperate. Stay Safe!

-Miss B

Dear Miss B,
I’m in college and really want to explore my sexuality without feeling inhibited. Babson makes this so hard because it is such a small school; it feels like I’m back in high school! Any advice on how to keep a good reputation; but still explore my sexuality here at Babson?
-Fast Times at Babson High

Dear Babson High,
I’m 100% sure you are not alone in your frustration! A couple of tips: 1. Try to keep things on the down low if you aren’t in a relationship. 2. Remember this is only four years of your life – don’t let judgers ruin your enjoyment 3. You get what you give; if you are judgmental and gossip then you can be sure others are going to do the same. Be aware of whom you are exploring yourself with because trust is very underrated. Try to perpetuate the spirit that everyone is just exploring themselves – gossip and name calling (slut, man-whore) inhibits everyone from finding their sexual identity. Our Resident Love consultant G-Spot adds these words of wisdom, “get around Boston and get to know students from other schools because there is a possibility that your next great love just happens to go to Northeastern….” Love and Let Love.

 - Miss B

To get your question answer please e-mail Miss B. Haven at sex@babsonfreep.com. All e-mail addresses will remain confidential. Please do not include specific names or information that would divulge the identity of anyone.